无论是做自己热爱的还是喜欢的事情,总是挣不到钱;
给别人打工,钱够花,朝九晚五,五天制,一年工作48周,一份适当的工作就是永恒;
工作的主要目的就是只做自己认为是对的并把它做好,以获得支持和帮助;
好东西都跟我无关,得必须靠自己去挣,去珍惜,要为之挣扎,为之奋斗;
工作得努力,是挣扎亦或是惩罚;
工作必须包括一些牺牲,你不能什么都拥有;
工作是身份的诠释,没了工作我们什么都不是;
有太多太多的规矩法则;
工作的主要目的是获得金钱和寻求财政安全;
通过减少不愿做的和靠别人的帮助才能创造成功;
我不够完美,得赚取自己的价值并珍惜它;
我错了或我做的事情总是有错的,我要提高自己并弥补自身价值;
我很糟糕,有犯罪感,我要通过努力工作来赎罪;
我一文不名,要不断证明自己的价值;
我很孤独,要向世界证明我的独特和我的价值;
如果你的工作生活受了以上这些观点的影响,现在应该到了改变改变的时候了。但是要想改变工作形态以外的东西得必须从改变内心的态度,信念和想法开始。我们大部分人都是伴着“眼见为实”的观点长大的,或许这可以等同说如果我们要改变我们就可以相信自己能改变。事实上,任何生活的重大转折的关键所在就是采纳了“我相信我能看得到”的观点的,如果你想要对自己的工作和生活来一次重大变革的话,以下列举的十条最有用观点可供你采纳。
我可以发现自己热爱的事业并从中赚到钱;
我可以改变自己的态度和情绪;
我工作的热情和热爱会让我得到报酬或得到提升;
我可以真诚,诚实并获得成功;
工作的目的是让自己的潜力得到最好的发挥,并且工作是轻松自然的;
当获得自信,爱心和情感的时候,生活会帮助我,自己内在的聪明才智会解决许多日常琐事;
工作中自我投入越来越多;
我会发现原来自己也有这么丰富的灵感和创造力;
成功是很安全的,要做最棒的自己而且让自己很高兴;
我很棒,德才兼备并能够获得成功;
Change Your Beliefs
Nick Williams
Ten unhelpful beliefs to do with work
You can't make money doing what you love or enjoy
A "proper job" is permanent, pensionable, 9 to 5, five days a week, 48 weeks a year for most of your life, working for someone else
The major purpose of work is to get approval and acceptance - to do the right thing and fit in
Everything good is outside us and needs to be earned, deserved, struggled and worked for
Work is and should be hard, a struggle and even a punishment
Work must involve sacrifice - you can't have it all
Work defines who we are - we are nothing without a good job/career
There isn't enough -scarcity rules
Money and financial rewards/security are the major purposes of work
We create success by eliminating what we don't want, by getting rid of our problems
Five unhelpful beliefs about ourselves around work
I am not good enough - I have to earn and deserve self worth
I am wrong or there is something wrong with me - I have to improve myself to make up my self worth
I am bad or guilty - I have to work hard and sacrifice to pay off my guilt
I am nothing - I have to keep proving my self worth
I am separate - I have to make the world realise that I am special and have self worth
If beliefs like these influenced you and your working life, then perhaps it's time for change. But to be able to change your outer world of work, you may well need to start with your inner world of attitudes, beliefs and ideas. Most of us have grown up with the idea of "I'll believe that when I see it", which is tantamount to saying that when we have changed we'll believe we can change. In truth, the key to all significant life changes is to adopt the attitude of "We'